Sequins ^^

This year is gonna be different...i told myself. 

Things look and feel different when for the first time, family is out of the story. 

When family is out of the story, differences made by their mere presences turns out to be another difference that needs adaptation. 

So in short, that means singing birthday song with grandpa and mom and aunt and uncle and cousins, getting presents from them, eating red-colored eggs, having nicely prepared dinner...well they are there, just need to ransack my memory folder and play them, again and again...

And suddenly i realize i am making myself pathetic > <

Mommy always tell me, life is about transitions, and whatever you yearn for now might be different from the one in future. Therefore it is always wise to not leach yourself to one particular aspect of life. 

Guess it is time for me to realize-- it is not dooms day when you simply do something different!

I kinda' like it a lot^^ ~ to have my birthday celebrated with friends^^

Feel remembered, feel being cared, and feel special^^=

A weird hobby of mine-- kinda don't really tell people when is my birthday unless being probed @@

Psychology friends had hard time figuring out..not to mention probing :P not until they saw my IC..ohhh~

(PS: my another weird hobby--i don't usually put birthday date on social networks :p exceptional case-- when i am not very good in editing personal info, etc.)

Some sweet messages that I got from dear friends^^ They just remember^^ and the fact that they just remember, without any reminder from social networks-- that just shows they care for you^^ 

and most probably keep revising your birthday date until it is stuck firmly in memory, together with academic jargons and tonnes of screaming journals titles, names, etc > <

why said so? 

because if you don't revise something, most probably the info heard is so gonna be like masuk telinga kiri, keluar telinga kanan XD coz the pathway Decays :P

Below are the birthday sequins~ each overloaded with wishes^^ and together, they light up my 22nd birthday ^^ blink blink^^~~~

1. The gan-cheong master-- JYao

他很可爱地从五天前就帮我倒数~谢谢^^ 

倒数五天哦~~~^_^~~

*january 14 at 12:36am

12 more hour^^ hehex~

*yesterday at 12:44pm

继续倒数~~~7个小时35分钟~

*yesterday at 4:25pm

 

生日快乐啊~~
祝你念念有今日~岁岁有今朝~
要天天开心哦~
你的庆祝和礼物~就留到你回来马来西亚位置吧^^
嘻嘻~
要好好过每一天~
等你回来=p
加油！！

*23 hours ago 

2. Hoodie puller, Dr. Eyelash spokesperson-- JihooPiseth

Happy Birthday to u Shine!!! All d best in things come to u!! Prettier cuter smarter cleverer n more popular!! Wish u successful in everything dat ur doing!!! ehehehehehehe it is really nice to no u!!!
*yesterday at 8:38pm


3. My psych bestie, Ee Min Ho die-hard lover-- Patricia~
Check your inbox please.. hehekz..
Happy birthday~~!!

*23 hours ago

Inbox message:^^ (sorry sayang :P it is really nice that i wanna share it^^) dun worry will cite you^^*

Happy Birthday to my dearest bestie, ROYCE aka Tan Wan Yen~~!! ♥ Here is something for you. Hope you like it. I cannot post it at your wall coz its too long :P

***************************
Hari berganti hari,
Sekian lama aku menanti kedatanganmu,
Menjejak semula ke tanah air dan menanti saat kita bertemu semula,
Duniaku tidak seindah dahulu ketika kau berada di sisi,
Kegelapan menyelubungi atmosfera duniaku,
Namun kau tak pernah jemu dan mengalah dalam persabahatan kita,

Jauh dimata dekat dihati,
Bergunung kerinduan hingga robohnya benteng keegoan menahan sebak di dada,
Kini aku hanya dapat menatapi wajahmu melalui gerbang teknologi,
Mungkin kau bahgia disana,
Mungkin aku terlalu menjauhi diri,
Sehinggakan wujudnya perasaan yang meracuni pemikiran kita,
Tetapi percayalah wahai sahabatku yang sejati,
Aku sayangkan dirimu seperti kita bersaudara,

Selamat hari lahir yang ke-22 sahabatku, Royce.,
Moga-moga tahun ini membawa erti yang bermakna buatmu,
Dengan itu aku akhiri penulisanku dengan menyatakan aku adalah Cutie.. hehe..
Seorang insan yang sweet dan comel selalu,
Itulah AKU, sahabatmu dan jua your bestie..

-Feza-

Happy birthday to you,
you are born in the zoo,
with my gee2 and your bunny,
happy birthday to you...

WWWeeeeeeEEeeeeEEeeee~~!! ♥ ♥ ♥

*23 hours ago

(aaa patricia^^~~~~ so cuteeee~~ cant wait to teach your gigi swim^^)

4. Buddy~

Happy birthday..:)

*23 hours ago

and he drew me a real nice picture^^ with my favourites in ^^ 

even though it is not tangible, but thanks a lot buddy^^ 

ur drawing reminds me of you busy with your pens and papers during borin' lessons XD (the we-know-what subject  ;)

5. Class rep for batch 10-- Ryan

Testing ppl ar u! Nvr put birthday information O.o Happy Birthday :D

*22 hours ago

6. Jason

Happy Happy Birthday!!

*22 hours ago

7. Sue May

Heyhey Happy Birthday! =D

* 22 hours ago

8. YuanRu

HAPPY BIRTHDAY^_^

* 22 hours ago

9. CHLi

happy birthday shine! :D

* 22 hours ago

10. EvelynDoremi~^^

Wishing you many Happy returns of the day ^^

* 15 hours ago

11. LYen

happy birthday~
still the same words, always take gd care of yourself.
all the best and enjoy ur big day~~~

* 14 hours ago

12. WKuan

my dear, hapi 21st..

* 12 hours ago

13. JoJo Scissors^^

MAMMY AH!!!! I'm so sorry ytd I'm so damn blur T_T I meant to wish you happy birthday wan but then after talking bout the thing yesterday, it slipped my mind. I wish you a very happy birthday, and thanks for giving Sunshine in my life ^^ MUAKX!

* 12 hours ago

14. MeiMiaow~

Happy Birthday Happy Birthday ~♥♥
shine shine shine keep your =) spirit
happy happy stay happy everyday
♥

* 11 hours ago

15. SHa~霞

Happy bday my dear!! ♥

*1 hour ago

16. Fan凡

Ehh.. Forgot your birthday ah? My facebook bday system is missing T_T
Happy birthday anyways =D

*1 hour ago

17. Mudster

its ur birthday?ahh..facebook got prob de.never show ><
anyways.Happy birthDay ya:D

*1 hour ago

Huggiess for all the sweet wishes^^*

Grazia^^~

* Specially dedicated to: Elaine Tan, Yan Yee, Izzat, Im Im, Thida, Piseth, Taro, Vancee, and Teddy^^*

Grazia~
and huggies^^

Sorry..having to start a simple thank you post with something @@ (like this kind of expression~)

Etymology of Grazia
- in italian, it means gratitude. Grazie is actually a more accurate form of thank you.

I choose grazia, because to me gratitude comes from the heart, while thank you can always be a word that is said so easily, because we are taught from young to say it-- it is simply common courtesy.

I am not saying thank you for common courtesy, nor because everybody came down in thick jacket dancing tip-toe while chorusing cold, cold ~~

I truly appreciate what was being done tonight^^

I would rather not go out unless it is 'bout working in cafe..

but you took the pain to go out in this so-cold-wanna-scream weather, struggle to choose a nice cake for me as well as tailoring it to everybody's tastes (no cheese, no chocolate, no sweet potato @@- what 'bout a plain cake) :P

and thank you for the lovely presents^^~

*so cute can faint!!^^*

*ingredients-- tonnes of heart, gallons of energy, a spoon of love from everybody~*

Grazia Elaine^^even though we do not really talk much but you got me what i like the most ^^--handmade gifts^^~
i really love them a lot because it is like showing you like me, and then you like me as your friend enough to make something for me instead of buying it--stuffs that other people made~ ^^

Grazia Yee^^ you just recovered from a cold, coming sunday exam, and then you walked all the way out to get the cake ^^ not to mention you gave me the bunnie post card ^^ (PS: i am starting to think that it is becoz' you think we might like it then you took them for us^^* but you didn't say it~)

Grazia Izzat^^ i know i have been a party-popper while i was in psychology--kept figuring out surprises :P and that you have to complicate things to come up with a surprise for me :P and sorry too :( for making others saying you are too elaborated :P

Grazia Taro^^ for the birthday song and twinkle twinkle lil' star^^ i really like them even though they are not tangible, but i understand that it takes courage to perform something you are good at in front of everybody ^^ and i feel really touched..that you shared what you are good at on my birthday ^^~

Grazia Im Im^^ for jumping out from behind the door with the others and gave me a nice surprise^^~ and to be honest =^^=, i am a bit like a lost bull XD gonna knock here and there becoz' for one moment, i am not really mentally prepared for this :P and you are there suggesting us just dig the cake with spoons^^ i really love that idea^^ becoz if cut the cake, it is like each of us just attend to the cake itself, but dig from the cake, we are sharing^^ and we are eating each other's saliva^^ and it is the thing that makes the cake even nicer^^

Grazia Thida^^ for coming and joining coz' i know you are trying to diet (is that im im's influence ar XD) and jumped out from the door with the others too ^^ and, thanks for leading in singing the birthday song^^ i heard your voice^^

Grazia Piseth^^ the one who always pull my hoodie ^^ :P and protrude his nice tongue out :P :P are you using any Tony Moly product or Etude House product to your tongue this time ^^? thanks for being here tonight^^ 'coz i was sort of like awkward--the limelight was on me and everybody was there to wish me =^^= and you are there trying to live up the atmosphere, and i felt much relief listening to your cute statements that make everyone laugh^^~

Grazia Vance^^ thanks for coming ^^ i know you guys performed during the afternoon, and i guess you must be tired...maybe after some brief celebrations~ and haha XD yeah, have to admit that after you pulled the  bang bang thingy (dont know the name :P), i was like, ok~ now the feeling of nervous was replaced by afraid of the thing was gonna made another bang :P thanks for alleviating my anxiety ^^

Grazia Teddy Tet^^ thank you for leading the others in 'settling' the cake ^^ coz everybody somehow was like a bit shy to get started, and i was like..what should i say to ask everyone 많이먹어, and then you said come! lets eat arr~~  then out came the spoons ^^

22nd's birthday is embroidered with memories of you all ^^*
Thank you ^^~ and hugggss^^

My song for YOU^^~

Copyrighted by: Me^^*
Fifi cutie^^
I know you already habis cuti :P
And next week exam mari ><
2 papers to study~
I know they are not cute and easy :(
So kat sini^^
I would like to wish you^^~~
Fighting! Ganbateh! Jia you~~ p^^q

I miss copy schedules for you sayang^^~
miss sleeping in your room^^  (while bully you to sleep on the floor XD)
miss listening to your voice~
miss your hp suddenly rings itself off during classes XD "that girl is so dangerous, that girl is a bad girl ~~XD"
miss swimming with u lar XD *waddle waddle ~*
miss eating with u *kai lan beef extra kai lan~*
miss karaoke with u *rock kapak !!*
miss shopping with you *ei royce ar what do you think of this ar..hurm i wanna buy this for my sister la, my brother i think the shirt just now..*
miss watching movie with you ^^  *snuggle inside the comforter and only 2 eyes can be seen, wahahahaah so funnieeee!! omg !! royce ar!!!! leeee min hooooo!! oh i wanna die for him!!!*
miss ejek you XD *teach your gigi how to swim! teach bunnie how to fly to the sunway hospital! fifi~~ i saw something in your cupboard~~~aaaarrrghhh!! royce ar!! gatal!!*
see^^~ i remember u lots...
even though we do talk less, and i am worried..when i come back things are gonna changed...that we will be no longer closed...that there will be some distance for us to fill in before we are like we used to be...

But that doesn't matter becoz i tell myself-- if i miss you right now, we are gonna meet definitely somewhere on our road to success, 
to travel together~
i am going to come to sarawak and rock your house XD
and eat your so-delicious-cannot-live-without cooking,
and we are gonna shoot each other with psychology terms~

sayang^^ i know you can do it^^
becoz i have faith in you , and i have faith in our dream^^
and i love you lots lots^^*

Here is a song for you ^^ it is the "jia-you song"^^~

Title-加油！你有ＭＥ！　（jia-you! you have me!）
By- Alan & 魏晨

Lyrics~　(adapted: http://zhidao.baidu.com/question/77125497.html)

你有我 会一直为你加油

you have me  who will always ganbateh (jia-you) for you~   
加倍快乐的呼吼   

happily cheer and shout jia-you for you~
有你有我 就是最好时候   

it is the best time with both of us together~
我 对你没保留   

I  hide nothing from you^^~

就算看不见   

even though can't see you face to face
你也在心里面   

but you will always be in my heart~
摸摸心就觉得很温暖   

feel warm every time i hold my heart~
思念呼吸般自然   

missing you is as relax and automatic as breathing~

就像被你加冕   

it is just like being crowned by you
灵魂加了亮点   

my days are embroidered with brightness
就想再好一些   

i want to be better

对你再好一点   
and treat you better

想什么 就说什么   

i always speak what i think
你让我做原来的我   

it is becoz' you encourage me to be myself
不计较什么   

喜欢我   
and accept me for who i am

(repeat)
你有我 会一直为你加油   
双倍快乐的呼吼   
有你有我 就是最好时候   
我 对你没保留   

你刻印在我的胸口  
像温柔 默默在渗透  
爱为你加油 加油加油加油再加油  

你刻印在我的心头  
当忧愁 都被你没收  
爱为你加油 加油加油加油再加油  

就算看不见  
你也在心里面  
摸摸心就觉得很温暖  
思念呼吸般自然  

就像被你加冕  
灵魂加了亮点  
就想再好一些  
对你再好一点  

想什么 就说什么  
你让我做原来的我  
不计较什么  
喜欢我   

你有我 会一直为你加油   
加倍快乐的呼吼  
有你有我 就是最好时候  
我 对你没保留  
(你有ME!刻印在我的胸口 你有ME像温柔 
在渗透你有ME!爱为你加油 加油再加油)  

你有我 会一直为你加油  
加倍快乐的拍手  
有你有我 就是最好理由  
我 对你没保留  
你有ME…
加油！你有ME

^^ JIa-you^^~ my bestie^^~~

hugggiess^^~

Games- psychological relief^^~

I am never a game person. While there was the 'suitable' age when friends around started to strike conversations on play stations, game boy, famous computer games (notably RO, CS, Dotta), i remained saintly untainted, but insanely lack of topic of conversation :P

So what is the special game that makes the 22-year-old indulged in?

Facebook games~

Came across with this Happy Pet, Happy Aquarium, and Zoo Paradise


And this is how i explain what i am doing while friends tinkle me in skype or facebook:
"sorry late reply.. i am feeding my..*pause* 2 dogs, 1 puppy, 1 cat, and 1 tank of fishes^^~"

have to say they are fantastic virtual pets--
I drop by frequently to check out if they are in hunger, if the cleanliness of the house is upsetting them, if they are happy... despite earning coins for taking care of their basic necessities, i still have to say that it is not the ultimate motivation for me dropping by (i am gonna use the coins to purchase accessories and furnitures for my pets anyway XD).
It is to see my pets happy and joyfully jumping around, swimming around, adding more and more exotic and beauty to the plain house and aquariums that make me stay tuned.
I really feel as if they are real, and that if i am not committed enough, it is as good as if i have abandoned them ><

Sneak a peek into my zai zai and lui luis^^

*(From left- Rawly, Hippie Yippi, Ziggy, Polaristie, Coatie^^)*

Huggies^^~ <3

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows

Finished the last book of the series this morning 2am :P

Yet mind still running quite wild- self-imagined images of the journey in searching horcruxes, hallows, close shaves, disappointment, frustration...neural firings never slacked from the very moment eyes started to run on the first line on first page, until now, 606 pages-- finished.

It is a die hard habit of mine to brood and immerse in anything I've watched or read- which is precisely what i have been doing ever since finishing the book~

Have been thinking every book serves a purpose, but to each its own. 

I love imagining, more so, picking up life quotes that are actually easy to comprehend, but difficult to realize :P makes me feel like i have not just bought the book and merely have it stored nicely in the cupboard. 

Buying is just accessing the surface of the book, but reading, analysing, and accepting drown us in what the book has to share~ swimming and embracing wisdoms in the book, and we come out from the pool of words, nicely soaked with newly attained perspective(s)~

What i have gotten out at the end of the day ^^~

Dumbledore to Harry, p. 575

* Perhaps those who are best suited to power are those who have never sought it. 

p.578

* Do not pity the dead, Harry. 

Pity the living, and, above all, those who live without love.

p. 579

* Of course it is happening inside your head, Harry. 

But why on earth should that mean that it is not real?

I really love the last book^^~

it is beyond words of compliment^^

credits to-- J.K. Rowling^^- HP and the Deathly Hallows^^~

Pit of downfall

While reading Harry Potter and The Deathly Hallows, couldn't help but agree- you'd get away with intelligence, at the same time fall into traps set by own presumed intelligence.

Arrogance is the pit of downfall- couldn't have put it better in other way.

Never I have such strong urge to slap the person in the face and yell at him stop it!


I watched Star Wars- Darth Vader was cruel enough right- he wiped out the lil' future-to-be Jedis just because of selfishness. Yet the urge was not as strong as compared to Voldermort.

Forgot how long it was coming across with a torturous yet captivating story..

As eyes running through the lines---

(p.159) ..an honour for him and Kreacher, who must to do whatever the Dark Lord ordered him to do..
there goes the image of the house elf in mixed feelings, part of it shockingly surprise, part of it unknown and wanting to do things right to please his master, the obedient, innocent elf follows that *swear-words-will-never-enough* (aka voldermort) to the cave...he is just an elf... he doesnt wanna rock the world like voldermort...what he wants is just get the right thing done in a right way to make his master feel honoured.

(p. 160) there was a basic full of potion--poison..the dark lord made Kreacher drink it...
Kreacher drank, and as he drank, he saw terrible things...
Kreacher's insides burned...Kreacher cried for Master Regulus to save him, he cried for hi Mistress Black, but the Dark Lord only laughed...he made Kreacher drink all the potion...
and then the Dark Lord sailed away, leaving Kreacher on the island...
very tear-inducing and anger provoking ><
imagine the poor lil' elf!

how could this *swear-words-will-never-enough* guy just USE the elf for testing ?! with the apparent intention to leave him to die on the island? (anyway what can you expect from a swear-words-will-never-enough guy?)

yet thanks to his presumed intelligence, ultimate ignorance and underestimation for other living creatures that the elf gets to survive-- a magic that no humans could perform considering the circumstances aside from elves, which then eventually leads to his final downfall--took seven episodes but yeah, die.

has he not so much of himself and taken other creatures for granted, Harry wouldn't even get the chance to locate the third horcrux so easily.

also learned something from the story--never look at one side of things

regret to say that I don't really like Kreacher ever since his first appearance in the Order of Phoenix.
with all the swear words he used--mudblood, filthy...
quite shocking 'coz Dobby and Winky would spank themselves with the largest pole they could find if they were to accidentally mention any of these words..
eventually in this final book, got to know that Kreacher was actually an old elf severely deprived of affection and niceness. he was sensible enough to display a normal facial feedback to those who nastily ordering him around--unlike other elves who obeyed nonetheless.
but he changed~ a nice change^^ when the trio (harry ron hermoine) adopted a humane way of communication^^

intelligence definitely comes with a price without moderation^^~

also, nobody is the somebody you are looking at right now. no matter how bad someone is, there is always tinge of niceness within^^bloom if the environment allows^^

love^^~

irresistible factor^^~

Ever since my first Christmas tumbler, i have been eyeing on the upcoming New Year Starbucks tumblers ^^=

It is not that i am not loyal to my snowie^^ but they are just irresistible! 

*simpler design as compared to snowie. nonetheless very classic chinese new year feel^^*

*this design is beyond words!! so cute and creative^^a must-grab collection~*

*i miss the man who is a rabbit, and yet, always miaow around ;)*

*think of my bestie fizah too~ wonder how she feels if we use the same cup^^~*

*michelin is for food..what 'bout cups..? hmm..shinning 5 stars then ^^~*

A very sentimental design^^~ 

think of my dad, my mom, my best fren^^~

Happy 22nd^^~

Happy 22nd buddy^^~aka David Chua  :)

A glance of him...

we had been classmates for six years XD
not till form 4, we were just "hi" "bye" friends.
what made the turning point from hi,bye to friends who talked 'bout weather, work and superficial stuffs was he drew me in animated version and gave it to me on my birthday ^^~i was elated, off course-- he is a very good artist^^
we literally became buddies (topic of conversations expanded) after graduation- which i forgot exactly how :P

he is a very nice friend~
i still remembered when he first entered matriculation while me pre-uni, we had considerable struggles-- which major to choose, dramatic change of language use, different workloads, and most importantly, style of teaching is totally different- spoon feeding to increased independence.
had lots of peep talks with him that time, and we shared most of our secrets with each other~
*remember 洗衣男，健身男 XD*

also my favourite songs that he played for me using piano and guitar-- silent night, 黑白配，shinning friends~~
knowing that i love christmas he will definitely not forget to snap pictures of nice christmas trees for me ^^

-courtesy of buddy^^-

when i am back in hometown, that is when he drives me to pasar malam, friends' reunion and around the neighbourhood XD

thanks buddy ^^ happy 22nd XD
(PS: older than me liao XD XD-->< 9 days later have to face the fact of gaining one year :( )


i didnt have a white christmas :P
the snow came 3 days after new year^^
and here are the nice pictures, compensate for the late present =^^=

-outside the dorm of uni.-

-caught the snow!!^^-

-serendipity^^-

-flowers in new, elegant white coat-

-tehee^^*snowman, courtesy of cambodia exchange students-

-the temperature changed abruptly--the ice melted and froze again ><ll see these ice cubes XD-

-the weather is sooo cold until the lil' stream froze :P nice right ;)-

Seal the post with my buddy posing with my phone ^^*

Happy birthday ^^~~
Many sweet returns and hope you have a blasting one^^

Feelings Plate^^~

Last Sunday was anticipated for long, coz' went to Gimhae Lotte outlet with friends~

I told Elaine I would have slapped myself real hard if the place were to flourish with branded stores.

And tada! My dream came true^^ll
Found ourselves surrounded by Gucci, Burberry, Calvin Klein, Puma, Adidas...

Then I changed my mind...
If someone gonna' get a slap real hard, that would be my poor wallet :P

So I went round and round, with my list of must-get-or-else-my-depression-index-gonna-sky-rockets.

I noticed my preferences has turned to sporty and outdoor-ish gears after coming to Korea.
Definitely not conformity coz' I didn't have the strong urge to grab cosmetics ;) winks*

And guess what I found^^~ (*danced, jumped, screamed, clapped; insomnia :P that was later story)

Nike white colour sports bag!!!
OMG!! fell in love at first sight^^~
look at the price--ok, within my budget^^~
*squeeeeekk and danced to the counter ;)*

That was new bag over old bag XD opps~ sorry old gal :P 

inner compartments^^ see my starbucks tumbler ;)

I love my bag so muchhhh~~
but i'm sure mummy is gonna say i will get it nicely coated in black before long :P

Monday was interesting coz' had nice talk with buddy who was really willing to learn English^^ Shortly after that accompanied Yee to the hospital for blood test and felt happy bout' it, coz' i did something that i would like people to do it to me to my friend^^~

Tuesday was another interesting day too coz' I was like a zombie after staying up till 4am for Korean language homework, and snoozed like nobody after dinner when in fact, i was supposed to study for Wednesday's test :P

Had a nightmare on entering SPM exam hall again..same horror..haven't study for chemistry even a tiny bit ><

Woke up and was quite confused with it coz' chemistry, back then in form 4, 5 was my best science subject. If were to dream, how come it is chemistry and not physics instead :P that subject back then was like braille to me >< no matter how i touch them, feel them, i just cant get them! end.^^

Today feel happy^^

coz' I changed my blog's layout, and later, gonna knock on elaine's door and have some manicure together^^

life is nice^^

next week christmas^^ what else can be compared to that^^ my greatest anticipation of the year^^~

miaow^^~

Fairy God Mothers

As usual, Ram browses her facebook, running her eyes over the comments, one by one.

No she is not a facebook addict. And, no, she has more to do than hawking others statuses and comments.

It is just nice to see how the world perceives a particular subject, like something abstract, difficult to be defined, suffer to be debated- something like, love.

Now she is very sure that fairy god mothers don't exist. 

And, she is very sure that she will be bombarded and blown up into pieces by her besties who worship fairy tales, and striving to live at least one of them out of reality. 

But that is not exactly what she means!

Fairy god mother derives from Cinderella, so lets trace back to Cinderella and how the LUCKY girl summons fairy god mother. 

Or, wait. Before that there is even something more important-- lets do a bit of definition- LUCKY.

Lucky, is definitely not Imagining- imagining the prince is gonna' get a girl as his wife.

Lucky, is definitely not sitting down on the staircase, crying, mourning, and doing Nothing over torn dress, piles of houseworks, and tonnes of unfairness. 

Lucky, is definitely not brooding over problems and stop trying when there are hurdles, one after another, despite you opening different doors. 

Now get the point?

Fairy god mother is there for Cinderella, not because Cinderella is lucky, nor she is Pitiful enough to summon the fairy. 

The fairy is there simply because it is just time for her to pop out!

Cinderella never gives up going to meet the prince despite not having a presentable dress. She actively fishes out a book on dresses and her sewing kit, manifesting her intention to sew her party dress in limited time compressed by house chores. 

Cinderella finishes all the house chores her step mother and step sisters throw at her, unreasonably, with the disturbance of the house cat, Lucifier. 

Cinderella gets a pleasant surprise from her mouse friends, and in the blink of eye, her step sisters just crush her happiness by tearing her dress ruthlessly.

Cinderella can't do anything to go to the palace anymore. She doesn't have the time, nor money.

That is when fairy god mother appear when the broken hearted but works so hard to try for what she wants girl cries her heart out. 

That is when fairy god mother changes her ragged dress into stunning dress, along with the magnificent carriage. 

That is when Cinderella arrives at the ball, stuns everyone including her own step mother and sisters, and off course, the prince himself. 

That is when Cinderella walks side by side with the prince, happily marching to their new palace, after she tries to tell that she is the owner of the crystal shoe. 

Now that is when, LUCKY chips in the story- people who works to get what they want for their life will have a lil' bit of boost to reach the goal, which rhymes with the 99% of perspiration, 1% of inspiration say~

It just doesn't work the other way round. Ask Edison if he agrees the other way round. Probably that is enough to make him jump up from where he is right now and smack those day dreamers real hard ;)

Kind reminder^^*

Complaining and yakking for soul mate to appear just won't help.

Never ask why God is fooling you around for so long. 

Maybe He, has already answered you. 

He chunks a soul mate in front of your eyes. 

But you are too busy indulging in laments, and you miss the boat. Says who God fools you? Or, you fool yourself?

Things won't just jump to you with you sitting there doing literally Nothing but Wishful thinkings. 

Yes, you wish. But you need to have something to let your wish build on. 

Wishing and doing nothing- if the fairy god mother were to pop out that would be HOLY MACKEREL!

Simple.

Marathon-like wish list- No effort, no result. 

Yes dare to dream (Walt Disney),

but don't day dream on your wishes waiting for them to puff miraculously in front of you. 

For your kind information, that won't even happen in fairy tales, what's more reality?^^